A lot of that is “nice but out of reach”, either due to state laws and/or our insurance coverage

B&Bs and any sort of “guest stay” or even tourism-type events are specifically not covered, because they’re such high risk of claims. We had a CSA for a few years and it didn’t work out very well for us.

The stuff I’m mulling right now tries to meet three criteria:
1) minimal new setup, up-front expenses, and/or permits
2) makes use of something we already have in abundance
3) can be done year-round rather than seasonally

So far I’ve come up with the following:
website articles
pet food
wood craft products
wool/fiber products
professional svcs, probably for some of the software products I used to design/support

The website articles are particularly appealing, because I enjoy writing, I can write a full article in only a few days, and I can sell it over and over again without any additional effort. So that’s where I’m leaning at the moment. The wood crafts and wool/fiber products appeal to my arts-n-crafts side, but there’s a lot of prep work involved. The professional services/consulting is also appealing, because if I work for three hours, I get paid for three hours. But a lot of those professional contacts and networking have moved on to vastly different fields, and/or that work has been shipped overseas. So article-writing might be the primary, then perhaps crafts work over the winter. That’s a good wintertime activity anyway.

I’m sure you’ve thought about this

But can you start a small-scale CSA? It seems like you’re organized enough and have a diverse enough farm to do a really cool CSA. I know that the prices for CSA boxes in my area seem a little pricey, so there’s potential for some degree of profit for the farm owner.

I know it’s not a lot, but I do dog boarding at my home. It’s a completely easy way to bring in extra money with no cost if you have a fenced in area at your home.

I’m sure you’ve thought about airbnb/b&b type work if you have extra bedrooms. I know some people are weirded out by having someone stay at their home but we’ve had nothing but positive experiences, both as a host and as guests.

Well, last night’s counseling session was interesting

We both walked in hoping it wouldn’t be as ouchie as the previous one (which was one of the most painful we’ve yet had, by far), but knowing we were probably going to get grilled in some way. The therapist, who to my knowledge has never taken DR but has done a lot of work helping married couples with financial disputes, sort of laid it on the line last night and told DH that he can’t manage “his” money by himself anymore, and he can’t hoard financial information anymore, because it’s not “his” anymore. It’s “ours”. Our joint responsibility and our joint management and our joint ability to vote on where the money goes. I can’t be shut out of those decisions and those management tasks. Could have come right out of the FPU or TMMR books, first chapter. She also told him he can’t pay the mtg out of savings anymore; if we’re ever going to have a balanced budget, that bill MUST come out of our checking just like everything else, and then we budget around it. I was hard pressed to keep from cheering.

But I have my homework assignments too. The farm has GOT to start making more money, and more consistently. We’ve had lumpy sales scattered through the year, and those sales amounts are each going up. But they’re not enough to offset all the costs yet. And bringing those costs down another notch is on the list again too. I went through a major cost-cutting exercise late last year and early this year, but I’ve sort of been coasting since then. One of DH’s main stressors apparently has been this notion that he’s still carrying the farm’s finances, and was simply expected to do so into the distant future. Um, no, that was never the expectation, but it’s time to back up that sentiment with action. So this morning I’m going back to the drawing board to see either how to cut costs, bring in more income, or (preferably) both. My rather steep goal is to find a way to generate several hundred $$$ of new income, every WEEK, by the end of this month. Yea, that’ll be a challenge, but it’s a challenge with a lot of nice benefits. So we’ll see what I can come up with.

We’re also going to start having him do the budget, as of this month. In the past, I’d do the budget based on my actual numbers and his estimated numbers. That’s been one of the bottlenecks, that he would never give me his actual spending amounts. One of the things he said last night was that he had a gut feeling that the farm was costing us more than we realized, and that his spending was “fine”. To which I replied that I had actual numbers for how much the farm costs, and earns, every month, vs his “gut feeling”. And the therapist agreed that in this instance, she was more interested in the actual numbers than in “gut feelings”. So now he can’t hide behind all those excuses anymore. He needs to come up with actual numbers for his own spending, balance that against the actual numbers for my portion of the ledger, and make it work. And then run it by me and I get to vote on this-or-that adjustment. Another task for today is prepping my own spending numbers to send to him so that he has all that information in time for our budget meeting this weekend. Love it love it love it.

But we clearly still have old habits to change. One of my tasks has been to pay the mtg each month. I would pay for the upcoming mtg payment online each month, but it would always come out of his accounts. Per his instructions he’d give me which account number to use, and for awhile now it was his savings account. Lately I’ve insisted that he pay the mortgage, so that I’m not the only one who knows how to do that. He’s resisted that too, but last night he sat down at the keyboard and I walked him through (again) how to take care of that task. When it got to the point of which account to pay from, he stubbornly refused to take it out of anything other than his savings. Again. I told him we could delay the payment a few days without penalty (up until the 5th) to give him time to have his paycheck come in. We could even wait another week, in case his paycheck came in next week rather than this week, but no. That was simply unacceptable. So he took it out of savings again. To which I said “ok, as soon as that paycheck comes in (and I have no idea whether it comes in this week or next), we put at least half the payment amount BACK into savings”. He grumbled about that, but I didn’t have to tell him that I’d take it to the therapist if he refused. He knows I will. So I think he’s very much a creature of habit and doesn’t like learning new tricks, but we’re on our way. One grudging, resisting, “I shouldn’t have to and I don’t want to” step after another.

Off to go dream up how to make $500 more every week, starting ASAP. I think once I tackle that, I’m going to tackle some slightly less demanding goal, say, conquer illiteracy or world hunger or cold fusion or something similar. You know, something easy.

As I read your post just now

I couldn’t help but cheer right along with you! I know every marriage takes both parties to keep things going and am glad to hear you are working on getting your business pumped up too. I am excited for both of you as you each learn new habits and learn to work together.

I am trying, too, to find new ways to get my income up for my coaster business. I am looking at taking an ad out in a relatively new local magazine that is more upscale in content and design. I believe it reaches the market I am trying to reach … middle to upper income earners who have some disposable income to spend on custom gifts. My goal is to get a call in to the advertising department for rates. Dh told me last night that a lady in his Rotary club works there. I said, “Let me see if I can find her name listed at the front.” (Where the list the editor, ad exec, sales exec. etc.) I found it and guess what? She is the Advertising Director.

One thing that is a confirmation for me to use this magazine, depending on rates of course, is two articles I just read. One is about a local band of 3 young men who are all Christians and are working full time jobs and trying to make a go of the band. I know one from the local Chick-fil-a. The other article was highlighting a local pastor from an island in the Caribbean, I believe, who is now living in our area. He furthered his education within an hour of here and stayed in this area to minister. Awesome stories, both of them.

Okay, now that I’ve put that out there, I need to put a date on that task/goal. My goal is to talk to the Advertising Director that dh knows by Monday and have a rate sheet in my hand so I can make a decision about ad space. Alright, every one, hold me to this and ask me if I’ve done it!

Have you ever canned in this kind of jar?

One day I noticed that Classico (brand) spaghetti sauce is bottled in 16-24 oz, stamped right on it, MASON jars, regular mouth.

So I should be able to pressure can in those, correct?

Normally I’d file it away under good to know, since Classico is so expensive. But this week they are on sale for $1.67. A case of 12 will run me $20, which when considering a case of pint canning jars runs me close to $10 (yeah, I don’t live in canning country), and a case of quarts is closer to $13, $20 for jars I can can in, plus spaghetti sauce seems like a pretty good deal.


We are still screaming that we are debt free March 22 at 3 PM CST

We are just doing it via phone. I am just super busy lately and have no time for a trip. We ordered a big metal building in cash. It is going to be part man cave for my husband and half homeschool room. I am so excited ! It has been my dream for awhile. I am feeling WAYYY better health wise too. I am trying to cram all the stuff we didn’t get done when I was sick into the next few weeks before school starts. Our house remodel is almost done too ! I have been out enjoying debt free life and have missed alot on the blog. I am sorry everyone. I am hoping to get caught up soon. 🙂

Glad your DH’s employer is getting so serious about keeping employees happy

I have occasionally heard about companies hiring special trainers for things like efficiency, Covey-type optimistic management styles and the like, and even ethics principles. But never humility. I think that boss should get some kudo’s for listening to his employees’ complaints while still trying to work with the comptroller. Most biz owners would have simply a) blown off the complaints or b) fired the person outright, rather than try to find a decent solution. Veeeeery interesting business owner you have there. Maybe make him a batch of cookies sometime, for being a decent, balance-seeking human being. Sounds like one.

Basically there will be forms to be printed out

That the rank and file employees will be asked to fill out anonymously and submitted on a regular basis. They are to name names. Then this “counselor” will go over the forms with the “offenders” and point out to them alternative ways to handle situations. They compared it to marriage counseling. My guys don’t see how it is going to be done anonymously because if they hand write the responses their writing would be immediately recognized (ds should have been a doctor, where dh prints everything better than some computer printers do. If they use their work computers it could easily be traced back to them, they wouldn’t even need the NSA. We’ll see how it goes.

I have never heard of this kind of training

But I’ve never worked in the ‘corporate realm’ either. Not sure how one “teaches” humility to someone who is so full of themselves to begin with. Sounds like someone figured out a scam, ahem, a ‘unique training track’ and someone has taken the bait, I mean, bought the manual. I guess the best that can be said is that the company has some money to be spent and they found someone to take it. LOL Nothing like a good match.

We have been trying to get a little more exercise in our lives

This last few weeks and generally this includes a walk. The last few days it has been a walk to the mailbox. Not only is this good exercise because it is rough terrain, up and down hills and ½-1 mile walk it allows us time for family chats as we walk.
Yesterday’s talk was to bring ds up to date on what is going on at their mutual office. Ds is currently farmed out to another company, which is good for him to stretch his wings and gain more confidence in his drafting abilities. It didn’t hurt his ego any that the department head of the project specifically asked for him either. But I digress.
Dh had left work nearly an hour late because of a big meeting. The meeting was scheduled, but the subject was a surprise to most of the company. The owner has hired an individual to “teach management humility.” Yep, you read right. To teach them humility. Apparently the debacle with the paychecks this last winter is just the tip of the iceberg. 2-3 employees a month have been quitting ever since the first of the year and when asked why they have cited things like the pay check mess, including the insults that were hurled about other employees money management (I personally am still pissed about that one). Dh said the first person named on the owner’s hit list is the comptroller. It seems she’s been still messing paychecks up (not ours, dh thinks she’s afraid of me—she should be), and when she is faced with her errors she is rude to the complainers. The owner basically told everyone that either she works with this trainer and adjusts her attitude or she’s history, same goes for the rest of management.
Apparently her attitude has bled over to some others in management and the owner feels this is exactly why they have lost so many good employees to other companies. I think the first clue the owner got was when each and everyone of those leaving stated they were leaving because they were tired of being talked down to by certain management members.
This trainer is to be there for a year! I doubt the comptroller will make it through the fall. Truthfully I’m surprised the boss has put up with her this long.

So Sunday I sat down and made myself this huge list of goals (sound familiar ladies?)

For the next year for Buddy the Bathtub Duck and his friends. Had a discussion with the guys about it and have already started on that monster of a list. IF all goes well I should be generating an income by the fall that would help pay off our debt and carry over to help supplement our retirement.
One step is to advertise, thus the post I just put up about cyber networking—please read it and see what you think of the idea.
On other fronts we completed week six of eating out of food storage—really wanted to go for a Sonic burger though—stayed home and had tuna casserole instead.
I made my first true snowball payment on BB and the statement cut off shortly after that. It combined with the small bonus payments saved a whopping $2.05 in interest this month, not a lot on the face of it, but in the long run that is $2.05 that will not compound will increase in savings as time goes on. I’m pleased.
Ds’ being farmed out to another company Mickey Moused with our fuel budget a bit, but the guys got it worked out and ds will now be home on Fridays to help me with the business for the next few months (working 4 tens) so it is all good.
Oh, apparently squirrels and rabbits don’t like pepperocini peppers because while they are munching on everything else in the garden I got to pick some nice peppers this weekend.

My shoe collection has slowly been moved to the basement

It was in my shoe room, I mean spare bedroom, but I have had to move them to make room for bedroom/nursery for my daughter. The thought has crossed my mind to buy a bigger house eeek… but I’m praying this move my daughter has suckered me into agreeing to, is temporary. I purposely purchased the house I have now to accommodate myself, my puppy and my shoes.

Coming out of lurkdom for this, it’s a great thread!

I love what Mark said in her paragraph about downsizing her house. My idea of simplicity is, at bottom, a search for contentedness. I want to identify the things I *NEED*, and then remove everything else, keeping in mind that “need” covers all areas of existence, not just physical things. (So I feel like I “need” my home library, because reading is how I re-energize myself from stress.)

I like ideas that remove conflict. We were continually not getting dishes washed because they’d all stack up so fast and then we’d feel overwhelmed. So instead of us yelling at each other every day to get it done, I removed all the extra dishes, so that each family member had one plate, bowl, cup, and silverware set, and saved out two large microwaveable plates, a large pot, and a large frying pan, and two microwavable casserole dishes. That’s pretty much it. So even if we don’t get the dishes done this meal, there’s not much there, and it’s fast and easy to do.

We had a summer wherein it was exorbitantly expensive, and we’d used the electric oven a lot. So higher cost on running the oven, and higher cost on the AC working overtime to cover the heat that got into the house. So we simplified for a month to see how it worked: we only used the microwave and the toaster oven (that my folks bought us for Christmas). That was three years ago, I think, and it worked so well that we’ve only used the oven twice since then, and I think it was for large trays of Christmas cookies.

For me, simplicity also involves time. I want to know that we as a family have plenty of time to comfortably be together just hanging around the house. Keeping track of a dozen schedules and running here and there, even if we’re all together in the car, is NOT simple for me. Being dedicated to the weirdness of not spending money helps, of course, because it reduces the number of shopping “errands” that seem necessary.

I have my degree in early childhood development, and the part that interested me the most was the amazing power behind environment design. Those classes explored how carefully thinking out the positioning of each item (typically furniture or a category of learning toys) would create a room that allowed the children to explore and learn independently with the least amount of struggle. I have a disability that means a lot of normal home activities are a struggle for me, so I applied what I learned about environment design to my home, and it simplified enormously the steps that I have to take to accomplish things. Basically, it’s taking the idea of ‘don’t arrange a sofa directly in front of a door’ just a bit further than interior design.

So. Simplicity to me is ease of living, and what it takes for me to be contented in my life. Accessed through careful management of time, environment, money, and taking the time to be self-reflective and recognize what it is that you, as an individual, and your family, really needs.

Can’t remember the website

It was an offshoot search when I was trying to find out what Paul’s kids were doing. Couldn’t find any private info about his other two kids, but did find a webpage dedicated to his building a 5 million dollar house. Lots of discussion of whether that was a wise use of his money or not. The house is a small portion of his net worth, so some people agreed that it was his money, he paid cash for the house, and he could do whatever he wanted. But others thought it was too ostentatious no matter what your net worth is. They cited Warren Buffett as being super rich and living in an old small home anyway. Paul’s always liked toys and he’s never been shy about it. He just does his purchasing with cash.

I do agree with your thinking

We too live a “simple” life, but everyone’s definition is different. We have the 5 bed, 3 bath house with pool. No, not what I really wanted, but it fit the budget and I needed to find a house in 3 days–that was 21+ yrs ago. We have 6 people living here and 2 birds. I have 4 cars in the drive–need another and a motorcycle in the garage. My “custom” furniture is what my DH had made–tables, chairs, benches–both indoor and out. We have redone the whole yard/pool, pavers and landscaping included. Took us 4 years, but it is done.

we mostly cook from scratch, we do grow some veggies and lots of herbs.

My frustration is people will try to outdo each other and not understand how the other person got to where they are now. I purchase by quality and check for prices. Rarely do I do an impulse purchase and when I do, I discuss it with my DH.

I’m guilty I guess

I have a 3yo and an 18 mo; Little boy gets up early so we usually go downstairs and hang out on the couch and play on the iPad. I am consistently amazed at how FAST he “gets” the apps in terms of vocabulary, numbers, matching games, etc.

Little girl is older so gets it even more — she grew up with Mickey Mouse and Elmo on the iPad and is smart as a whip.

At one point I even contemplated getting another iPad so the kids would each have one to play with but realized it’s better if they learn to take turns and share. iPad apps have come a long way IMO.

Trust me though they still play with pens and paper and glue sticks and bubbles, blah, blah, blah. The iPad is just another tool in their educational arsenal.

Well when I think of simple living

I think of not being ostentatious with my finances. I don’t think there is a simple definition necessarily.

When I cook – I cook from scratch. I say when I cook because prior to my daughter coming back home, I ate out more often than not because I don’t get the hang of cooking for one person. At least with another mouth to feed, and the fact that she’s home more than she’s away, the food that I prepare doesn’t go to waste. When I cook… I make my own pasta for instance, tomato sauce from fresh tomato’s, bread in the oven, etc. I have the staples – yeast, flour, sugar, eggs, butter and from that I can create any number of things. I haven’t had the urge to grow my own tomato’s or buy chickens to get my own eggs.

I have downsized houses…there was a time in my life when I had the estate, with two fully furnished living rooms, a family room, an entertainment room and all of the trimmings ad nauseum. I realized I was over the top when the inground pool had to be lifted over the house with a crane and it had to be transported to my home with lead cars and all of that. Now, literally the house I live in now could fit in the family room in totality. I now need only a place to sit, eat and lay my head and my little cottage fills that need. No nick nacks no extravagances, my china and silver and crystal is packed away and I hold on to that to pass on to my daughter one day. Gone are my expensive wool rugs that covered every floor, the crystal chandeliers, and most of my custom made furniture etc. I have custom made curtains in the windows – but I sew so I made them all – in every house I’ve ever lived in barring my childhood home, I’ve made the drapery, the duvet coverings, I did all the painting techniques on the walls, with oops paint.

I’m extravagant I guess you could say with my auto(s) but when I pay for them with cash, and maintain them myself after their warranty is gone and keep them 10+ years, the extravagance really becomes one perception, not necessarily my reality.

I do however still maintain the debt mindset, which is why I stick and stay with this group! I am of the opinion of buying the best that one can afford but my thinking has been modified. Buy the best you can afford – pay cash to do it. Buy quality – but pay cash to do it. Buy quantity – but pay cash to do it. Oddly, this is simplicity in living to me. Maybe I’m an oddity or have my concept of simple living wrong.

I am a “buy what you can afford” person when it comes to gifts for people – children and adults

A simply lived life doesn’t have to ban electronics in my opinion. The fact that we’re all communicating on line gives testament to the fact that we are all computer literate, why not have and encourage the same for our children? A 10 year old computer will still work, but it will be slower and less efficient, but if that is what you can afford, sobeit. But if you can afford a newer model and keep it for 10 years that would be my choice. Thus my feelings about cell phones for teens – I bought the latest model for my daughter and it served her well for a few years because I recognize that teens would rather text than talk – it is the nature of the beast that is a teenager in this day and age. I don’t see it detracting from conversation or creativity for a teen. You generally have to prod them all with a million questions to get them to “talk” to you, with or without a cell phone.

Now if you can’t afford a cell phone, or have to make payments on it (like ATT just announced they were going to give the option of doing), that is an entirely different conversation. Definitely live within your means.

A good, no, GREAT bibliography and sources list

There is no way you can personally know, little on write about everything.
Example the sustainable living mentioned below. Read up on it (via the library for free) and include the books in your bibliography that explained it best for you.
Sources: book, after book will tell you to cloth diaper your kids, but very few tell you where to get cloth diapers or even how to make them.
I spend hours doing research for my six soon to be eight different blogs (just as soon as my word is up and running on the office computer—dang thse o’s). I reference websites, cite books and sources as well as tell were to get certain items. It helps everyone.
Write what you know and know what you write. You, from what I’ve previously seen, are very knowledgeable, expand on that.
Guard yourself, give safety warnings. If you talk about tree felling, then include safety measures and recommend that sometimes it’s far wiser to hire a professional. We currently have two very tall pines that need to come down that we will be hiring done because life happens and we do not want to lose part of the house or the power lines.
Pictures! A photo is worth 1,000 words. People are tuned in to utube and are very visual these days. A cookbook will say cut shortening in with two forks, or a pastry blender. To old cooking pros that is not a problem, but to a novice they might not have a clue. So a photo showing how to use 2 forks for that step is valuable. They might not have a clue what a pastry blender is, so show one being used. It’s a simple thing to most of us here, but to others it’s like the “separate two eggs” comedy skits.
What would I read up on?
Right now I am in research mode on home organization, including all aspects of my home, farm, business etc. I get very frustrated with sites and books that tell you to rush out and purchase this item or that. I’m trying to declutter this place, not add more clutter. I want to use items I already have on hand, but I want it attractive and EASY to use.
Example: scrapbooking paper. Almost every site suggests buying a paper rack of one sort or another some say vertical, some say horizontal, almost all say buy! I don’t want to buy. I want to use what I have.

I found one utube video that showed using priority mail boxes to make vertical ones. Folks, when you have a scrapbooking habit of any volume you are talking a LOT of priority mail boxes. While I will give the wman credit she does stress using used ones, no one I know gets that much priority mail, so people are going to go pick up “just a few” for free from the post office. But they aren’t free, they cost the PO and the PO in case you haven’t heard is in financial trouble.
So I’ve been measuring and using all sorts of normal every day, have to recycle or burn anyway boxes, like cereal boxes and such. It’s taking awhile and I had to work out a pattern on my own for covering them to be attractive and acid free. A good article with photos would have been very helpful.

So organizational ideas that are built from what I have on hand that are functional and attractive.

I’ve actually been mulling this question/topic a tad more

After I posted my first topic, I realized there are many different facets of “live simply”. Ours is one, but it’s definitely not the only one. I strongly concur that a lot of kids are programmed into perfect little consumer machines, and then spend the rest of their lives living out that programming. And I definitely concur that folks don’t need to be involved with, or interested in, homesteading or farming in order to simplify their lives. I think where I was going with that comment last night was more along the lines of acknowledging that any adoption of ideals, will bring with it some trade-offs. For us, we had to work our butts off physically so that we could build (literally) the life we wanted. We didn’t realize that was part of the trade-off, until we were actually IN the lifestyle. For other households we’re familiar with, who aren’t farming but who have adopted a “simpler” lifestyle, their lives actually got more complicated. They have to work at it to figure out alternatives to the smoothly-packaged, aggressively-marketed choices and options all around them. For instance, what to tell their kids when all their kids’ friends not only have iPhones but FB accounts, and entire conversations occur on FB and/or via iPhone that they can’t share in? How does a kid without an iPhone and/or FB account, participate in that social life? In that quest for “simple”, that’s a complicated issue ExtLoans Co. – long term installment loans online. So, Are there ways to live beyond the merry-go-round of consumerism gone berzerk? Yes, I firmly believe so. But is it “simple”?? No, I think it gets harder every day. For me, living simply means having the closest connection possible between me and the products I need to live. And that has created an entire web of “gotta-do’s”. For others, whose idea of “simple” maybe means less electronic garbage in the house, or less TV, or less junk food, that’s awesome. But the choices and options they’ll have to make to acquire that “simpler life”????? Definitely more complicated than merely drinking the Koolaide and going along with the crowds. I think perhaps that’s why so few people buck the trend. It’s “simpler” to just go along with it all.

No one needs a smartphone

But, Bill G. is NOT a proponent of a simple lifestyle. He is a proponent of living within your means. His personal means are valued around 55 million. He does not live a simple lifestyle.
His message is take care of what you have. Once you’ve gone through the baby steps, do what you want with your money.
There are quite a few people on this board that make a lot of money and are able to give their children “things”.
I love the simple lifestyle, but my DH doesn’t. I could live a lavish lifestyle too, but I’m just as happy living simply.
There is nothing inherently wrong with buying kids stuff. Teaching your kids good money skills is. That’s why we are all on this board.

Best wishes in your endeavor!!

Personally, I would not read a book on simplicity if the main thrust of the book is homesteading and how to do it. I know there are plenty of people like Kathryn and her husband who choose that lifestyle, but for us it ain’t happenin’! LOL I love the fact there there are those who do it. I believe it makes a solid contribution to our country to have homesteaders who are self-sustaining and want to provide fresh, quality products to the community. Now, if homesteading were simply a chapter, or two or three, then that would be fine.

I would like to see this addressed … so many people are filling their lives up with junk, I mean pure junk … products that are of inferior quality, in order to satisfy a whole that more stuff can never fill … whether it’s stuff for the house, more “toys” (cars, boats, RV’s, atv’s, etc.), more toys for the kids, vacations, etc. I am not against those things at all if a person can pay cash without affecting their lifestyle and they’ve planned for it. But too many people are seeking satisfaction in those things.

In my beliefs, there is only One Way to get that deep satisfaction–contentment, if you will, that is through a relationship with Jesus. Not everyone will see it that way and that is okay. Stacy, maybe that is not your frame of reference. If it’s not, then I can understand how that will not be included in your book.

I don’t recall reading a book on simplicity

But here’s an idea that jumped into my mind. Dealing with your debt-ridden friends/acquaintances who think that you’re depriving yourself because you don’t buy every single doo-dad that hits the market…

Living with less, mindful shopping and finding satisifaction with what you already own is a major part of Simple Living. I agree with you though, our society very much needs to hear that happiness can come from having less stuff.

I think I may also put some focus on how we, as a society, tend to program our kids to want stuff. I am seriously concerned by the number of little kids I see holding IPads, smart phones etc.. in the stroller while mom does her shopping. Kids bribed with trips to the toy store if they behave etc…


Mo’ joe, mo’ betta. Be sure to add lots of cream and sugar for the full effect. I once got to talking with a fellow tea enthusiast, and we talked awhile about our favorite types of tea. But then she said “but you know, at the end of the day, the flavor of tea doesn’t actually matter. After all it’s really just a vehicle for caffeine and sugar. The flavor is just a nice touch.” Alrighty then. I guess she’s got her priorities figured out. I’ll hang onto the notion that flavor is a tad more important than that. But maybe not by much.

A lot of what we’re doing here

started with a general desire to go out and “live simply” and homestead and raise our own food and meet as many of our own needs as possible, via what we could grow or make on the property. We’ve got a LOT of books on the shelves that talk about this way of life. What we didn’t figure on, was the WORK involved. The books would talk about going out and clearing a spot of land for the cabin or the hayfield. Groovy. They didn’t get into chainsaw safety or felling trees safely or tractor/implement safety or that you’d be so dog-tired after the first day of work that you’d be too stiff to move the next three days. Or that it would take you a whole string of days, when you thought it would only take a few hours. They say every project can be measured in terms of time, money and effort. If you are limited on one of those, you’ll have to make up for it with the other two. In our case, we didn’t have a lot of time, at one point we had a decent amount of money, but dang that “effort” rating went right off the charts. So a chapter or two on “realistic planning” would probably be a good idea.
I’m actually thinking of a similar article, no it wouldn’t compete with yours but rather would be “Chapter Two” of your line of thinking. I’m late getting started on chores tonight so I won’t describe it here, but I’ll write it up tomorrow morning as part of my “did you do your homework” report.

A little OT but could use your help

For the past couple of years I have been toying with the idea of writing a book on the subject of simplicity. More specifically, simple living, or as some call it intentional living. Problem is that I’ve never written a full book before (usually short essays or commentaries) and I’m not sure where to start. So I thought I would start with you.
What topics would you like to see in a book on simple living/intentional living?
Obviously finances will be in there, but what other areas do you want to know more about in terms of how it applies to a simple living lifestyle?
What topics do you feel are over done in books on simplicity and should be only touched on with less print devoted to them?
What areas do you never see in a book on simplicity/simple living/intentional living but feel should be in there?

Any help you can give would be appreciated.